Making life an adventure.
Dimitris keeps moving. He followed his inner need to go away and this brought him on the other side of the map, to live a fulfilling, simple life in an endless summer.
Name: Dimitris Kiriakoulis
From: Patras, Greece
To: Valencia, Spain and currently Costa Rica
For: adventure and experience
I
left Greece in 2008, when I finished my studies. I studies Civil
Engineer in Patras, where I was born. At that time, I was feeling
generally stuck; I didn't know if I really wanted to work as an
engineer but I did not have any exciting alternative option. I did
not want to stay more in Patras (too small to keep me) but I did not
have any idea of where else I could go.
So,
I ended up to the idea of having a master's abroad, in Spain
specifically, since I had started learning Spanish.
That
time, my main interests were my studies, the Spanish lessons, drinks
and trips. I was going out a lot but at the same places with same
faces. I think this motivated me a lot to go abroad.
2.
Your motivation to go abroad and advice of your close circle.
First
of all, it was my thirst to meet new places, cultures and languages.
I am very keen on foreign languages, like my mother is. Considering
my genes, my mother is Danish and a lover of traveling and adventure
that ended up in Greece. My family supported my decision. Most of my
friends are not that ambitious and did not have much to advise me. I
was always quite independent, a "survivor" that would find
his way by himself.
I
chose Spain for master studies, due to the language. Considering the
fees, the requirements and the life cost, I chose Valencia. I did not
think about it quite in depth, I just wanted to leave. Then, I lived
in different cities before I ended up in Madrid, fall in love and
leave again; this time at the other side of the Atlantic.
The
reason I chose Costa Rica... The tickets were cheaper than other
nearby destinations. Secondly, it seemed to be a small country, easy
to explore and adapt to. After we came, everyone suggested that the
best place to work is Tamarindo. And that's where we went.
The
first time I changed country to go to Spain, things were more
difficult. I was feeling worried because things were uncertain. My
basic fears where first the money and second failure.
After
the first job I found, fears and doubts faded away. Things were
getting better and I was more self-confident. Traveling to America
was an easier decision since I was more experienced but also because
I had a partner with me, encouraging each other.
5.
Your first impressions.
Valencia
is a classic Spanish/European city. It's a nice city, well maintained
but nothing extraordinary. In regards to my impressions of the
equator (Costa Rica/ Panama), they were really strong and intense. A
different continent, with different people, habits, climate...
Everything was different. We left Madrid a morning with 10 degrees, to
land after 2 days in San Jose with 35 degrees! It is funny that
since then, 2 years now, I have seen no winter! I haven't worn a
jacket! Same in Panama; a real paradise! Different colors, images,
waters, people. Generally, I could say that the last two years in
America have given me stronger images than the rest of my journeys
together.
After
5 years in Spain, I realized that Spanish people are culturally very
similar to Greek. This made me feel very comfortable. On the other
hand, people in Costa Rica are totally different from usl and that is
the most interesting thing.
I
also realized the intense difference between Europeans and Americans.
All those years of social friction and fermentation have given to
Europeans this heavy cultural heritage, that enables them to have a
different understanding and worldview.
Other
than this, it is impressive how different the people are in daily
aspects of life; behavior, speech, food, habits and many more.
A
lot of things since I left Greece.
In
Spain: teaching Greek, teaching English, building constructions,
driver, sales call center, translator in an international company,
usher in the Cirque de Soleil. Teaching English was the most
fulfilling job I had so far.
In
Costa Rica: Cook in a pizzeria, delivery, assistant photographer, and
barman in the same hotel where I currently work as receptionist.
In
Panama: cook and private driver.
What
I love the most: the sea, the endless summer, tropical fruits, simple
and warm people, multi-ethnicity, easy rhythms, that I can go to work
barefoot, my colleagues and the name of the Village ("Tamarindo"
is a tropical fruit, delicious as a juice or sauce).
Something
that I miss is the olive oil, the olives and the olive trees, the
fresh cheese, the oregano etc... Here, the basic food is rice, beans,
mapa, corn and fruit.
9.
What does Greece mean for you at this point of your life.
Now,
Greece for me means holidays, family, friends and acquaintances.
Every time I get back to Greece I reconnect with my beloved people.
It is also an opportunity to refresh the language. I believe that the
Greek language is the most important asset and privilege of being
born Greek.
10.
What do you think about going back?
Of
course I would like to go back in Greece at some point. I think that
under good circumstances, Greece is one of the best places to live.
After I get tired of traveling, I would like to go back and live in a
small Ionian island, like Ithaca, and start a little there. I don't
know what this will be, but I believe that all this collection of
experiences, ideas and work can result into something good in the
future.
Of
course I realize how impossible this is under the current
circumstances in Greece, but I want to be positive and believe that
it will not be always like this. I hope in a few years things will
get better and returning will be a better option.
Home
is where I have friends and people I love. Wherever I feel familiar
and warm, any time I get back. Home has been everywhere I have lived
and had experiences but also the places that I have not been yet but
they wait for me for me to discover them and love them.
Of
course I feel Greece more familiar than Costa Rica, but my feelings
for Greece do not come from the history books, my Greek DNA and other
nationalistic views. They come from my childhood memories, from
moments that marked my life, the language we share and can always use
with great ease.
In my view, if you want to feel part of a country, you should be able to speak fluently the local language. You should try to get the accent and get used to the expressions, the slang, the vulgar words, the proverbs... to learn to think and if possible to dream in this language. Then everything is easier.
12.
Where do you see yourself in the future.
I
wish I knew! (And that's an honest reply!)